Signature Programmes

Besharam - Be Shameless

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ISIRI - 2023

Independence | Self Empowerment/Awareness | Inclusion | Resilience | Inspiration

Objective:

To create opportunities for women artists from severely marginalised backgrounds, to develop their skills, work towards financial independence and create cutting edge work using their art to address relevant social issues. They will work using a range of art forms with underprivileged communities.

Project Description:

Harnessing Artistic Brilliance to Drive Social Change

This initiative unites five extraordinary women, each a gifted artist, who navigate profoundly challenging life circumstances. Despite their adversities, they possess the power to inspire and impact the lives of many. Allow us to introduce you to these remarkable women: Sarla, Prabavathi, Lakshmi, Moogambigai and Suji.

Sarla, a rare female Silambam martial artist, pioneering a self-defense curriculum for women.

Prabavathi, one of the few female Kattaikuttu theatre artists, using dance to advocate for gender justice.

Lakshmi, a passionate wordsmith despite being quadriplegic, empowering others to find their voices through literacy and literature.

Moogambigai, hailing from a Dalit community, utilising Bharatanatyam to sensitise children about caste.

Suji, an organic gardener, growing food for Katradi's centre's free kitchen and educating children about climate and nutrition.

ISIRI Programme Flow:

Phase 1: Exploring Growth and Building Connections

  • Conduct one-on-one sessions with each fellow to identify their growth areas, required skills, and match them with suitable mentors.

  • Culminate in a workshop where fellows meet in person or online, fostering networking and collaboration.

Phase 2: Implementation and Development

  • Fellows actively work towards their goals, receiving regular mentorship and seeking additional guidance when faced with challenges.

  • Engage with target communities, test ideas, and develop a curriculum tailored to their needs.

  • Emphasize nurturing and personal growth of each fellow for broader impact.

Phase 3: Engaging with the Target Community

  • Fellows commence working directly with the target community, addressing specific challenges that arise.

  • Participate in refresher training to ensure sensitivity, awareness, and inclusivity in their work.

  • Promote equality and counter exclusive behavior patterns.

Phase 4: Reflection, Support, and Showcasing

  • Fellows conduct self-assessments, measuring progress from the programme's start.

  • Establish support teams to discuss and strategize financial independence for each fellow, considering their diverse backgrounds and needs.

  • Showcase talents of fellows and the target groups they have collaborated with, through both online and offline platforms.

Report from Sangeeta Isvaran, December 2012:

“In 2012 a child confided in me about being abused repeatedly for more than 3 years since the age of 8. During those painful moments of trying to find the courage to talk about it for the first time, the child could not even find words to explain what had been done to her. She just repeated in Tamil, ‘He did it! He did it!’ Only by her pain, fear and shame did I understand that she meant that she had been raped. This incident made a deep impact on me that the child was so helpless - her community had let her down, we, her teachers had let her down, even her language had let her down.”

Did you know that most adults in India do not know proper terms for reproductive organs in their mother tongue? The words used to refer to reproductive organs are either “dirty” words or complicated scientific terms. If children do not know the correct terms for their body, how can they report if their bodies are being violated? Besharam - Be Shameless starts at the beginning, encouraging people to reclaim our languages and use clear terms to refer to penis, vagina, etc.

Besharam - Be Shameless teaches youth about the body, sex and sexuality without shame or fear. Transparency and dialogue are key to this initiative.This module provides people with information necessary for a positive understanding of the body in a way that is nurturing, empathetic and fun. This is vital to build a healthy, balanced society. Besharam - Be Shameless sessions are available for youth and adults. Additionally, we provide facilitator trainings.

Shame that surrounds issues related to sex and sexuality has multiple ramifications, some being:

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  • because of shame, many children don’t report sex abuse
  • because of shame, adults do not teach youth about sex properly, leading them to turn to pornography for information
  • because of shame, girls do not learn about menstruation properly and myths about impurity are perpetuated. Because of shame, many girls do not clean themselves properly
  • because of shame, boys do not learn about nightfall (wet dreams) properly and will at times visit fraudulent doctors for “treatment”
  • because of shame, girls and boys do not report about abnormal secretions and itching that are symptoms of RTI/STI

Be Shameless
covers topics such as:

  • 1.  The reproductive process
  • 2.  Puberty
    • Changes in the body
    • Demystifying menstruation (for boys and girls)
    • Demystifying nightfall, masturbation (for boys and girls)
  • 3.  The physical, emotional and social implications of
    becoming sexually active
  • 4.  Meaning of consent (how to say no, "no means no",
    understanding marital rape)
  • 5.  Pornography and porn addiction
  • 6.  Sex abuse and proper reporting